Slow to Annoy

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 

James 1:19-20 
¹⁹ My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, ²⁰ because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 
  
We have been studying 1 Corinthians in our weekly Bible study.  I was convicted by 13:4-7.  Whenever I hear these verses I instantly think of a white dress, bouquets of flowers, and bad dancing.  I've heard this verse a dozen times at weddings and I always think, "yeah of course I should be slow to anger with my wife."  Well, not that I have a wife, but in fantasy land I know for certain I would be slow to anger with her.  


During and after our Bible study it hit me that I am to love everyone in this manner.  The Lord was also telling me that slow to anger may also translate as slow to annoy.  Of course I am never truly "ANGRY," but if I start looking at how often I am, what I define as, annoyed then we have a problem.


I may not have been the best at this type of love in the States, but I for sure am lacking here.  


There are so many things I see in the culture here that I admire and cherish.  

I won't lie and tell you that there are not a handful of things that push my annoyance boundaries.

Traffic cops in Uganda are hard to love.  When you pass a checkpoint they often see that you are western and pull you over.  Lots of times they have no reason to do so.  Once you are stopped they try and come up with a reason to write you a ticket (or threaten to do so in hopes of a bribe).  There is a huge range of random traffic laws that are generally not enforced, but technically can be.  That is what frustrates me so much.  As you drive up you can witness 10 traffic laws being blatantly broken and then when you reach they decide now is the time to pull somebody over.  These are probably not cases of full blown anger, but they are for sure cases of severe annoyance.

Here is a Ugandan line.  Obviously, this is a generalization, but seriously lines are hard to love.  At the supermarket whoever pushes to the front and puts their money in the face of the retailer is first in line.  There are so many personal space boundaries broken in these situations, but you gotta do what you gotta do.  The banks are the worst.  Actually, the banks do a decent job at keeping people in order, but when you come from a small town in the Midwest you are not used to waiting behind 10+ people to get service at the bank.  To make things worse many people at the bank are wealthy (lots of the poor villagers don't have easy access to banking due to transport costs) which means that the other customers are depositing/withdrawing several million shillings (1 million shillings = $400). 

Side note (man puns are a ridiculous blessing God bestowed on us), here is a list of note sizes in Uganda in shillings:
1,000=$0.40
2,000=$0.80
5,000=$2.04
10,000=$4.08
20,000=$8.16
50,000=$20.40
The fact that basically the $20 bill is the biggest and that credit cards and checks are almost never used means that if you are involved in an sizable transaction that you have to carry and count a suitcase of money.  Very time consuming, but it does make you feel like a "high roller." 


Sorry for the really long side note hope you were able to make the connection in paragraphs.  This is painful because it can often be in very small notes and each note has to be checked under a black light to make sure it isn't counterfeit.  Ok, well I need to change subjects cause I am getting annoyed just thinking about bank lines.  Point being lines are hard to love.

This is an image of a T-shirt that I found online.  Really tempted to buy it.  I struggle to love the cultural difference in time and pace.  Things here are very laid back.  I know so many people that come here and absolutely adore this aspect of the culture.  Yep, if you are here for 2 weeks and on vacation or a short term missions trip it can be a break from American fast pace.  If you are here trying to supervise 35 staff and a range of programs, the difference "can at times be not so appealing."  This is probably the biggest area that the Lord convicted me.  I need to find the beauty in every experience and the opportunity to share Christ and his love in every moment.  There has to be a balance between work ethic and relationship focus.  


And I need to strive to love the way the Lord does "slow to anger"
Numbers 14:18
Exodus 34:6 
Psalms 86:15
Psalms 103:8
Psalms 145:8


The Lord is doing great works in my heart.  I pray that He shines brighter in me each day.

Oink was my first word

I never feel as though I'm in the right mindset to blog.  I'm always too tired.  I always don't feel like my writing will be good enough.  I never know what to say or how to say it.  This leads to long stretches with no updates.  I apologize for this.  Even tonight I don't feel like I am going to put together anything great.  Either way here goes...

The housing for both my pigs and goats

I've been meaning to give an update on my animals for a long time and figure now is a good time to do so. 

Floyd

Gypsy

Inez and Shakes

If you have been following my blog you know that I started with goats.  I had a rough start because of wild dogs, but am on the rebound.  Right now I have 1 big male named Floyd, 3 females named Gypsy, Inez, and Maizie.  I also have two young males, Shakes and Mowgli, that I plan on selling once they are full grown.  All of my goats are just local goats except Maizie who is a milking goat.  The local goats don't produce enough milk to make it viable, but Maize is a cross between local and milking (obviously she probably has an official breed, but I'm not certain what it is).  She can produce around 1.5-2 liters of milk a day.  If she was pure she would produce 3 or more.  Many people in Uganda raise goats for meat and almost all of them just raise the local breed.  The exotic milking breeds cost at least 4 times as much so they are much more rare.

Maizie

More recently I have purchased a few pigs.  I grew up raising pigs and showing them at the county fair.  We never did it on a large scale, but from birth I think I have liked pigs.  Pigs cost 2 to 3 times more than goats so I just started with 1 boar and 2 gilts.  About 2 weeks ago I had my first litter.  It was a bit disappointing with only 4, but I'm still please to have a few piglets.  My male is named Mr. Darcy and the females are Flowers and The Baroness.  I'm guessing for future litters I'm not gonna put the effort into naming them all, but this litter was 4 females and they will be called The Supremes.

Mr. Darcy

The Baroness

Flowers and The Supremes

Flowers

The Supremes

I am also trying to figure out chickens.  I have never raised any chickens so I have a bit to learn.  I built a chicken coop behind my house and I'm hoping to have 10-15 layers. 

I have a young man named Dominic who lives in the boys quarters behind my house (boys quarters are common here.  basically they are small buildings with a couple bedrooms, a kitchen, and a bathroom.  people often allow either ground keepers, security guards, or house workers to stay in them as a benefit of their job).  Anyway, I don't need a whole lot of assistance at my house, but it is nice to have somebody at the house during the day when I am at work.  Dominic cuts the grass, takes out the garbage, washes my truck, and feeds the dogs.  I honestly don't have a whole lot of work for him so I figured this chicken venture could be a good educational opportunity for him and myself.  I am planning on making the initial investment and let Dom learn how to take care of chickens and in exchange he will be able to sell the eggs they produce.

Young layers produce much better than old ones so I decided to just buy 2 hens and rooster and let them hatch 10-15 that will become my longer term layers.  First two hens were a failure.  They laid around 20 eggs, but wouldn't sit on them to hatch em.  These first two were what they call Mzungu (white person) chickens.  I changed them out for a couple local hens.  Hoping these two want to be moms.  I also learned that chickens will eat their own eggs.  Had no idea.  On my to-do list this week is clip their beaks so they stop, people tell me it will.

Last on my animal list are my dogs.  I can't say I have ever really been a dog person, but since being in Uganda it has grown on me.  I think my issue in the states was that they had no purpose.  In Uganda dogs are the best security you can have.  They don't fall asleep on duty, they always know when somebody is near the house, and they only demand food and love as payment.  A large majority of Ugandan's are scared of dogs.  The reason for this is that almost 100% of dog owners own them as guard dogs.  There are no yippy dogs that ride in purses here.

Max

I started with a hand-me-down dog named Max.  I say that and it sounds like he might not be that great of a dog.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  He comes from a long line of pure bred Ugandan street muts.  Max can be a bit obnoxious at times, but he is big, his bark is loud, and he can easily intimidate anybody he doesn't know.  He is great!  I then found him a companion named Evelyn.  I raised her from a pup and she did well enough, but she chewed the electrical wires on my truck 4 times which diminished my affection for her.  Lucky for me I found a new job for her.

Recently we have purchased 4 more acres of land in the village where our sponsorship program is located.  Because of the increase in land we needed to add a security guard to patrol the new big area.  We don't have electricity out there and this makes the guards job difficult.  I realized how beneficial it would be for him to have a dog to patrol with him.  Evelyn, the job is yours!

Because she was going out to the land I needed a replacement.  I found a family in town that breeds German Shepards and was able to purchase a pup.  I have decided to name the little guy Shadow and am excited about his addition to my household.

Shadow

Ok, so this is way longer than I imagined it would be and I apologized if i dragged on.  Maybe it is my subconscious trying to make up for my lack of updates.














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